Friday, October 12, 2012

Success...A Lonely Road?


My definition of success has changed in many ways. I use to believe that my success completely depended on me and my capabilities. I thought that success was something that I needed to achieve in every area of my life in order to feel like I was accomplishing something. Many times for success we compare ourselves to others, try we set attainable goals and strive for excellence.

I have heard the expression “It’s not about the destination but the journey” a lot. With the way I view success, I appreciate all the little things that build up but if my end result is not something that I am proud of or I felt I could do better then I am not happy nor do I feel successful.

My view of success is much more inclusive now. My success is affected by those around me much more than I ever realized. I am who I am because of all that I am able to learn and take in from others. I am very intrinsically motivated and tend not to want to depend on others. For me to be successful I want to achieve all that I can but never lose contact with those around me. I want to continue to have a need to want to give back and make others’ lives better. Being in business I definitely want to climb the corporate ladder but not at in a way that compromises who I am. I want the best of both worlds and have a work life balance.

In a “hypothetically situation” I could see my view of success being different from others if I had to sacrifice my beliefs in order to become part of an organization or work better with a group. I have been in this position before but I refuse to be less of who I am or change in ways that I do not want to. The best way to get around doing is I would simply remove myself from the group if I could.   

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